The last few months in my marriage have been really rough to say the least. Hell, even the last several years... But worse lately.
My friend Michele and I have grown very close and I am able to count on her for about anything.
We have these "date nights" every now and again. It drives my husband crazy, because I go out without him. We always have so much fun. We take turns paying kinda like a real date. We have gone to dinner, for walks, horseback riding, to wineries... All of the things I can't get my husband to do. :)
Tonight, we do dinner and a movie. The new Twilight movie followed by din din...
My husband is grouchy about it which will make the day long. He is very controlling and does not want me to have fun, I don't think... Anyhoo.... He is jealous of Michele and I as well. Her and I always laugh when we are together and have so much fun. Plus Michele is bisexual and he has been convinced she is going to make a move and I will become gay too... Boy, that would put a dent in his ego...lol. It's not like I haven't thought about it. She's adorable, sweet, and is financially responsible, works hard, owns her own home, and damn, she knows me better than I know me sometimes. We have this link and she usually knows when I am in trouble or sad, etc. She's my best friend.
I am glad to have her in my life.
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2 comments:
Very sorry for the obvious strain in your relationship. Men are really stupid sometimes. When they realize they're losing something they value, instead of getting their act together (and becoming more desirable themselves) they pout, moan and groan like a spoiled child.
Hopefully he'll snap out of it and realize he's only making things worse.
Meanwhile . . . I don't think there's a straight woman on the planet who had difficulty with her spouse and didn't wonder what it would be like on the other side of the fence. Still, I could never swing that way.
most man are straight but most female are bi. But most female dont like to acknowledge it for social reason or for religious reason.I explored with my female cousins in my early teens, but I liked guys too.
I am married now with 2 kids. i have many friends, i enjoy female too occasionally, my hubby knows it and very supportive because he saw female female relationship in his family and relatives. We are very open with our kids too. I dont understand why your hubby should be jealous about your relationship with another female in this age.People are more open minded now a days
Lisa
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